“So, you want me to change my thoughts and think that it is OK for my psycho boss to treat me like dirt?”
I get comments like this all the time from clients who are brand new to
thought work. Changing your thoughts does not mean that you become a
wimp. It does not mean that you trick [...]

We spend
more time teaching our kids to ride bikes, tie their shoes, and brush their
teeth than we do the critical skill of HOW TO THINK. 
 
I am sure
that the parochial school education that my parents worked so hard to provide
me never ever included a lesson that taught me “HEY! You get what you think
you’ll get!”  [...]